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  • Melisa Arnautovic

Where focus goes, life force energy flows...🌼


There is a strange obsession many people have with investing much of their time in critisizing and complaining about others, as a central point to their own lives...


By doing this they are deflecting all responsnbility from themselves, onto others...


Those who complain about what others are doing or not doing for them would benefit from a bit of wisdom in that they start creating themselves.


Because they would quickly realise the amount of courage, effort, conscience and hard work it takes, especially when it looks effortless...


They would realise there is no time to criticise others because you’re living your own life and making an actual impact in the world.


It’s the easiest and most unconscious thing to blindly follow whatever the narrative of the hive mind is...


Reacting without thinking by putting out mindless complaints and pressing enter as if you are not speaking to human beings...


Know that everything you put out is your co-creation with the universe, including what you say and do on the internet.


When one thinks for themselves, focuses on personal growth, creativity and working consistently to bring it to life...

~ That takes consciousness and dedication to your life purpose....

Which has nothing to do with whatever anyone else is doing...


So as people spend all their time talking about other peoples lives...especially as a social activity in the form of spiteful gossip...


Perhaps you do this too...


Realise that it is an endevour that distracts you from living and engaging with your own life fully...


Consider that your attention is your greatest currency, it is your life force...


And where your life force flows...your energy goes...


Thus, to close with a self reflective question...


Ask yourself;

1. Where am I draining my energy by gossip/complaining about others?


2. In future, what anchors can I put in place to change this? (for example, the moment a friend of yours starts to gossip, you can respond with "I don't speak about people that are not present in the room" and shift the conversation. - seriously, this works and is also an important anchor for your own integrity.)


3. In what ways can I invest this time more consciously in my own personal expansion?


Then, go ahead and implement those changes...


As with anything, practice makes progress... and every rep counts.


Til next time,

~ Melisa

Conscious Educator | International Speaker | Trainer | Writer


It's always the right time to start livin from within ♥️




Wisdom. Freedom. Unity